THE GATHERING

3 GATHERINGS

a vulnerable reunion of souls in a luscious, cozy space

Each gathering encompasses 3 parts:

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LEARN

1 - 4 PM

Body-based learning & practice of erotic ritual principles, liberated sensuality, and consent. We’ll get nerdy and playful about bodies, boundaries, nervous systems, and eros as the delicious warmer lube for our evening.

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RITUAL

6 - 7PM

Juicy ritual to support us in transitioning from our learning space into the realm of erotic play. Together, we will invoke collective intentions and step into the cauldron of erotic mystery.

PLAY

7 - 10 PM

Bodacious cosmic sluttery. Intentional intensity for being, not performing. A space architecture of invitations designed to support you in meeting eros. We’ll close the container together in a ritual offering to the Earth.

For whom?

This gathering is for our queer kin who have a soft spot for femme-ness. A space to celebrate femmeness in a femmephobic world.

If you’re non-binary, genderqueer, gender-nonconforming, transfemme, transmasc, agender babe or a woman, we honor you! Whether you present as femme, celebrate femmes in your daily life, or are curious to (re)connect with femmeness, we’d love for you to join us!

Your body is an altar. We invite you to adorn yourself for the rituals, wearing what feels right for your erotic power & comfort; what makes you feel good, comfortable, and sexy; what allows you to move, to breathe, to be undressed.

This space is for you if:

You have a desire for ritualistic erotic group spaces, to explore the intersections of sensuality, pleasure, spirit, intimacy and connection.

You desire to fully and vulnerably show up - as a living, breathing, changing and evolving practice.

You are interested in the sacredness of creative energy.

You can hold softness for the complexity of intersectionalities, trauma, and identity.

You have a foundation of consent & boundary communication–or you don’t, and you’re eager to learn and engage.

You have worked on connecting to yourself and can hold yourself accountable for your needs and desires.

You desire to navigate this space without alcohol and substances.

You have fear or other feelings about spaces like this, and you feel ready to dive in.

EXCHANGE

In an anti-capitalist utopia, these gatherings would be free of charge. Given the context of our systems, time and place, we do ask for monetary exchange to collectively cover the venue & materials and modestly pay us for organizing & facilitating. Below is the exchange for each of the 3 gatherings. You're welcome to join us for 1, 2 or each of the parts.

solidarity

44€ / event

For those who struggle to meet basic need & don’t always achieve them.

• joining us for this gathering would create a significant hardship—not being able to put food on the table, pay rent or transportation.
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• experience multiple forms of discrimination

• have debt

• limited/no access to family support

• very unstable work / housing situations. rent lower-end properties

• limited/no access to health care and state support

• can't afford vacation or unplanned small expenses

If the reduced ticket price is not financially accessible to you, please reach out as we have a few free spots reserved.

regular

77€ / event

For those who are able to meet their basic needs but have little-to-no expendable income:

• have an irregular housing / work situation
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• have access to health care, state support and solidarity networks

• sometimes afford vacation

• have some expandable income (for cafés, cinema, concerts, leisure items, etc.)

• can ask family members, partners, or friends for financial support

supporter

99€ / event

For those who are comfortably able to meet their basic needs:

• able to pay for "wants" and spend little time worried about securing necessities

• have a stable home

• a well-paid job

• access to health care

• a western passport

• access to financial savings and/or generational wealth

• go on vacations annually

• own property, or rent higher-end properties

• have personal savings

On embodiement, trauma & disability

Living with trauma & disability ourselves, we acknowledge that embodiment and erotic spaces can be edgy or triggering. We aim to center trauma awareness & accessibility in our offerings as much as we can. At the same time, we are imperfect. We know we are taking a risk by coming together and opening up to unknown possibilities, ones that may change us in ways we can’t predict, that might make our magic even more marvelous. In cases of experiences of harm, we will show up to process things together.

We are so thankful to you for listening to your body’s knowing, staying connected with your needs and engaging with our invitations in ways that feel right for you. If you feel overwhelmed, there will be a person to keep you company if you wish for that, and a calm space to retreat to if you need a moment alone. We will try our best to meet access needs that will be communicated to us in advance.

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